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Chasing Sujeiry

By Sujeiry Gonzalez | 04/08/2010 - 15:47 | 3 Comments

Like Sherlock Holmes, I'm ready to solve a mystery. I'm going to put on a deerstalker cap, jot down notes on a mini-pad and poke around bars and lounges for clues to my relationship conundrum. Why do men only pursue women who ignore them? I'll ponder as I observe men drooling over women who turn away with a roll of the eyes. I have no freaking clue, Watson.

What I do...

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Surprise, Surprise

By Sujeiry Gonzalez | 04/06/2010 - 14:00 | 0 Comments

As far as technology has come, you'd think men would return emails, texts and phone calls in a timely fashion. Instead, they take days, weeks and sometimes months to respond as if messages were still sent on foot.  So you can imagine my surprise when The Trainer responded to the email I’d sent a week prior...

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Guilty Displeasure

By Sujeiry Gonzalez | 04/01/2010 - 14:00 | 0 Comments

As honest as I am, I feel really bad saying no. It's an awful habit that usually leads me to overextend myself, or worse, actually agree to something I don't want to do. That was the case with Generous Stranger. I was convinced I wanted nothing to do with the E-popping homie, but how could I ship out when...

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Bad Connection

By Sujeiry Gonzalez | 03/30/2010 - 14:00 | 1 Comment

It's been so long since I’ve received an actual phone call that I jump at the sound of a constant ring. With texting as the primary mode of communication, I don't get upset when a man doesn’t call. It used to bother me before, but now I've accepted that when a man says, "I’ll call you" he means, "We’re going to have the deepest 2-hour long SMS conversation!" It's either...

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Lasting Butterflies

By Sujeiry Gonzalez | 03/25/2010 - 14:00 | 2 Comments

In spite of his use of the N word I woke up the morning after my date with a smile. Not because I was pleased with Generou's Strangers foul vocabulary, but because I hadn’t felt chemistry in so long. There was something about Generous Stranger that gave me goose bumps. He had umph. He had swag. He had a ...

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Call Me Sweetie

By Sujeiry Gonzalez | 03/23/2010 - 15:00 | 2 Comments

I've gotten used typical terms of endearment like babe, baby, honey, sweetie and mami. Once and while, however, a man surprises me and musters a little romantic creativity. That's when sweet nothings like "my love," "mi vida" and "flacocha" leave their lips and enter my ears. And I am all too willing to listen.

So you can only imagine my surprise...

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Dolores dice...The Incredible, Invisible Boyfriend!

By Dolores | 03/18/2010 - 19:00 | 3 Comments

Dear Dolores:

I have a problem: My boyfriend of three years doesn’t act like a boyfriend. He never calls me, never takes me anywhere and never invites me to his house unless I suggest it— then he says, “Come if you want to.” Now and then, he tells me he loves me, and I know he’s told his mother in Mexico that he’s thinking of marriage. But most of...

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Ecstatic Attraction

By Sujeiry Gonzalez | 03/18/2010 - 15:00 | 0 Comments

When you first meet a guy, there are sparks. When you first meet a guy that's on Ecstasy, there are explosions you're not even aware of. That was the case with Generous Stranger--the kind and attractive man who bought me a Corona after some hooligans knocked my previous beer to the ground. He was high as a kite...

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