10 Sex Toys to Finally Try Out That ’50 Shades of Grey’ Fantasy

Have you read the 50 Shades of Grey books and secretly fantasized about trying something a little bit kinky with your man? Well, you’re not the only one. There’s a reason why the books became best sellers and are soon being made into a movie.

Not everyone has had the guts to follow in Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey’s BDSM footsteps. Maybe you’re one of those that is craving a just-tie-me-to-the-bed kind of romp but aren’t sure where to get started. Well, the good news is that a recent study found that bondage aficionados are better adjusted than those who are just into vanilla sex.

So get started, already! It couldn’t be easier to dip your toe (and other things) into a little bondage in the bedroom with these 10 sex toys that are perfect to get you started with that 50 Shades of Grey fantasy.

1. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Bullet Vibrator

Bullet Vibrator

One of the best sex toys to get started, the classic bullet vibrator is the perfect toy if you’re looking for some clitoral stimulation. The fun thing about incorporating it into your kinkier sex life is to actually allow your partner to have the reins, controlling where (and how hard) he buzzes you.

Doc Johnson White Nights Controller & Bullet, $13. Available on Amazon.com.


2. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Cock Ring

Vibrating Cock Ring

While the bullet is a good way to make things exciting for you, the cock ring is a vibrating toy for him. Don’t be fooled by this little device, though. Slip it on him and you’ll both feel the intense stimulation from this little toy. It’s the perfect starter for couples that just want to dip their toes in a more vibrating life.

Tor 2, $119. Available on Lelo.com.


3. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Nipple Clamps

Nipple Clamps

Looking to get a little more daring? Well, then the use of nipple clamps during sex (or foreplay) may be just the thing you want to try. These are perfect for you OR your man, depending on which one likes some chest stimulation the most. Don’t worry, it won’t hurt.

Magnetic Nipple Clamps, $25. Available on SpencersOnline.com(Similar styles also available at Amazon.com.)


4. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Door Swings

Door Swing

Always wanted to try sex standing up but it was just never viable? Or did you see that sex swing episode of Sex and the City and wish you had the guts to do the same? Well, fulfilling your fantasy couldn’t get any easier than with this door swing—made especially to help you get your aerial groove on!

Deluxe Fantasy Door Swing, $50. Available on SpencersOnline.com. (Similar styles also available at Amazon.com.)


5. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Feather Teaser

Feather Teaser

Always wanted to get just a little bit teased? For a little gentle and erotic foreplay, test out this feather teaser on your partner or have them play with your most sensitive parts with this fluffy toy. Close your eyes for a better experience and just allow yourself to feel the tantalizing sensations.

Tantra Feather Teaser, $25. Available on ThePleasureChest.com.


6. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Basic Bondage

Basic Kit

If you’re ready to really get into some light bondage play, then start off by tying your partner up. Or have him tie YOU up. Whichever fantasy is on your mind, it couldn’t be easier with this basic kit that includes wrist and ankle restraints, as well as a blindfold to get rid of one of your senses—and let the fun begin!

Our First Bondage Kit, $27. Available on ThePleasureChest.com.


7. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Pinwheel

Pinwheel

Experimenting with just a little bit of pain is all part of trying your hand at something new. If you’re shy about doing too much, start with the prickly sensations of this erotic pinwheel. It may look like a crazy kind of pizza cutter, but it provides a different kind of sensation when done lightly. Who  knows? You might actually enjoy a little bit of ouch with your ooohs and aaaahs.

Pinwheel, $20. Available on Babeland.com.


8. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Spanking Paddle

Spanking Paddle

Christian Grey’s perpetually twitchy palm always sent Anastasia Steele’s heart aflutter with fear and excitement. Want the same kind of experience? Well, this spanking paddle may be exactly what you’re looking for. The beauty of it is that your partner (or you, if you’re more the in-control type) can do as lightly—or as hard—as the two of you please.

Twitchy Palm Spanking Paddle, $30. Available on Amazon.com.


9. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Kegel Balls

Kegel Balls

These are actually designed to strengthen your kegels (pelvic floor) muscles that keep things tight down there. If you’ve read 50 Shades of Grey, then you know just the erotic moment when Anastasia tries them out. Curious? Get a little sexy with these easy-to-try toys.

Silicone Kegel Balls, $22. Available on Amazon.com.


10. 50 Shades of Grey Fantasy 101: Candy Gag

Candy Ball Gag

This one’s definitely not going to be for everyone. If you’re not a fan of STFU erotic screams in the throes of passion, then pass on this one. But if you’ve ever fantasized of having a silent, rough romp, then this sweet toy is the one to try. You might be surprised at how much you like it.

Sweet Lips Candy Ball Gag, $12. Available on GoodVibes.com. (Similar available on Amazon.com.)