Date with My Boy Friend
By Sarita | 04/16/2009 - 12:30

Yesterday I finally touched base with my boy Juanito—this awesomely hilarious friend of mine who I love spending time with. I haven’t seen Juanito in a few months 'cause of our mutually hectic schedules, but this weekend we’re both free and finally getting together.

After deciding when and where to meet, he politely asked if Jack (the guy I’m seeing) was going to be upset that the two of us were hanging solo, “Is he gonna want to kick my butt when he finds out we’re going on a brunch date?”

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Deal Breakers
By Sarita | 04/14/2009 - 12:20

Looks are definitely not everything. But let’s face it, when we meet a guy the first thing we notice are his looks and we can usually tell right away if we are physically attracted to him or not.

I’m proud to say I’ve been into all types of men—tall, short, light, dark, thin, husky, blue eyes, brown eyes, perfect teeth, crooked smile—I’m open to it all.

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An Indecent Proposal
By Sarita | 04/09/2009 - 12:55

Four years ago I enjoyed a steamy week long romance with this super hot guy named Luis who was visiting from South America. Over the years we’ve stayed in touch and reminisced from time to time on all the fun we had together, and how maybe someday we’d run into each other again.

The other night an instant message popped up on my computer screen from Luis, asking me if I was seeing anyone, because after all this time he was finally making a trip to New York for Semana Santa and was hoping we could reignite our romance.

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Pleasure Party
By Sarita | 04/07/2009 - 12:15

Although my friends gave me The Rabbit for my birthday one year, I’ve never been a fan of toys, edible lotions or enhancers when it comes to getting my groove on with a guy. Call me old fashion but I’ve always figured two naked people were enough. That was, until this past weekend when I experienced my very first “Pleasure Party.”

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I've Been A Bad, Bad Girl
By Sarita | 04/02/2009 - 12:45

The other night I woke up to use the bathroom and heard moans coming from my roommate's bedroom. It wasn't a biggie, I knew her man was spending the night and I'm used to their love noises.

But as I made my way back to my bedroom, I perked up when I heard a faint slapping sound. I HAD to know what was going on, so the next day I asked her about it. She laughed and explained that sometimes, while making love, her boyfriend gives her a light tap on the butt.

"So he spanks you?" I asked bluntly.

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First Kiss Miss
By Sarita | 03/31/2009 - 14:15

Ever anticipate a first kiss with a special someone only to have it wind up a complete disaster? This has totally happened to me before, most recently this is how it went down…

The first date was going well. More than well—amazing, even! We are having a blast, and the attraction kept building.

Times flies when you’re having fun, but it finally came time to call it a night. He inched closer and closer and our eyes met. Holy crap, we were kissing! Woohoo!

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Friends With Benefits
By Sarita | 03/26/2009 - 12:40

Friends with benefits. We've all had them, and some think it’s the perfect scenario:

You're out with your girlfriends having a blast, and 2AM rolls around. You've had a few cocktails, and you wouldn't mind making out with a boy so you whip out your cell and shoot a text to your special friend.

Minutes might go by before you hear back. You start wondering if your FWB has moved on to another FWB, and now you're bummed because you were counting on him!

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Simple as a Sandwich
By Sarita | 03/24/2009 - 14:00

This past weekend I left the hustle and bustle of New York City to spend some much needed quality time with family in DC. My grandmother and I shared some happy memories about my grandpa and I learned something new about my grandparents and the day they met.

One afternoon, 60 years ago, my grandfather confidently told my grandmother "I’m going to marry you someday."

The story goes that after walking her home, she asked him if he was
hungry and if he wanted to come in for a sandwich. That won over his heart then and there! 

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Talk Dirty to Me
By Sarita | 03/19/2009 - 09:45

When it comes to the bedroom, there are several types of personalities that are uncovered, you know—under the covers.

One of my friends has been seeing this guy for a while and everything was fabulous with him, until recently, when they slept together for the first time.

"Everything was going amazing, but in the middle of it all, he started talking really dirty to me. It was weird!" she confessed.

"Dirty talk? Yeah, some people are just into that," I said, trying to assure her it was kind of normal.

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Everybody Poops
By Sarita | 03/17/2009 - 14:00

This may sound absolutely ridiculous, but I always get embarrassed every time I have to go number 2 when a boy I'm dating is around.

Obviously I am aware that it's a normal daily activity, along with the long list of other bodily functions that are just a part of being human.

And I know all the tricks – matches, the "courtesy flush", and even these before-you-go liquid drops called Just a Drop that my friend Charlotte turned me on to years ago.

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