Back in the Game

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I hadn't been on a date in months. Speed dating was a bust and Mr. G—well, we all know what happened with him, don't we? So you can imagine how confused I felt when a fellow whom I met back in June emailed me saying he wanted to see me again. With so many months of not dating and waiting for Mr. G, I didn't even know when a guy was asking me out. Plus, this guy was nice and kept in touch because he was a friend, no?

I stared at the email, hoping to expose his intentions. Did he want to "see me again" at a gathering, like when we first met, or over an intimate dinner? Did he want to "see me again" and pay for drinks or "see me again" like you would a buddy and go dutch? I stared at the email for a minute longer but still had no answers. It was time for a pep talk.

"What's the big deal? You've done this before! Get back in the saddle, mujer!" I said to myself. I shook off my anxiety and returned to my laptop. I hit reply and composed a quick message agreeing to hang out. Now all I could so was wait… again.

xoxo,

Sujeiry
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Sujeiry Gonzalez, Contributor

Sujeiry Gonzalez is the Host of LoveSujeiry on American Latino Radio on SiriusXM, and the owner of LoveSujeiry.com. The life coach and author of the newly released Dating RITE; Advice on Dating Woes from Your Go-to Chica and Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles (2012) is an on-air talent that’s been featured on Exitos 93.9FM, Telemundo, FYI, and many more.

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