Dolores dice...Men Wanted
By Dolores | 10/22/2009 - 15:51

Dear Dolores:

I'm a 29-year-old professional Latina. I'd love to find a good man—preferably a Latino—to share the rest of my life with. Unfortunately, it's almost impossible to find such a man. I don't know what's going on with our hombres who feel so threatened by intelligent women with good jobs and aspirations. I feel that if I didn't work and stayed home cooking, cleaning and taking care of a bunch of kids all day, I'd have found a man already. What do you think?


—Soraya in Atlanta

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Dolores dice...Reluctant Bride
By Mariela Rosario | 10/19/2009 - 16:28

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Dolores dice...Trophy Chica
By Dolores | 10/15/2009 - 18:47

Dear Dolores:

I'm very proud to be Latina, but it infuriates me when my non-Latino boyfriend introduces me by nationality. He'll say something like, "This is Valeria, she's Dominican." Wink, wink. I don't even get it! And it is so annoying. How can I let him know how much this bothers me without blowing up in his face about it?

—Valeria, NYC

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Immigration Side-Effects
By Dolores | 10/12/2009 - 15:00

Dear Dolores:

I’m 19 years old and have a huge problem with my vato. We’d been dating for about 10 months but, as you know, Mexicans from Mexico are
different when it comes to relationships. They are very jealous and don’t let their novias have friends, hang out with amigas or go to dances, all of which I love doing. I did everything he asked, and now that we have broken up I  don’t know what to do with myself.

—Nikki in Wichita Falls, TX


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Dolores dice...Off the Wall
By Dolores | 10/08/2009 - 19:00

Dear Dolores:

I haven’t dated for a long time. How should I get guys to notice me?

—Violeta on the Web


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Dolores dice...Over the Rainbow?
By Dolores | 10/06/2009 - 14:20


Dear Dolores:

I have a little problem. I love my husband very much and I’m pretty sure he loves me, too. We used to live with his mom, but we moved to my parents’ house a couple of months ago. Ever since, he’s never around and is always going to his mom’s house. I don’t know if it’s because he doesn’t feel right here. What should I do?

—Sally in
Kansas


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Dolores dice...Lust or Love?
By Dolores | 10/05/2009 - 16:00

Dear Dolores:

I've been with this guy for a few months. He's super hot and everything, but I'm just not 100% sure. How can you tell the difference between lust and love?

—Confused in FL

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Dolores dice...Prisoner of Love
By Dolores | 10/01/2009 - 14:00

Dear Dolores:

I'm seeing a guy I really like. He's cute, nice and respectable, except that five months ago he finished a two-year jail sentence for breaking and entering. I'm a good girl who's going to college and I want to make something of my life, not like the other mujeres I see around me. He tells me that he needs someone like me to keep him out of trouble. Do you think it's a mistake to start a serious relationship with him?

—D.D. in Las Vegas

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Dolores dice...Nowhere Man
By Dolores | 09/28/2009 - 18:00

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Dolores dice..."Gaydar?"
By Dolores | 09/24/2009 - 13:24

Dear Dolores:

I have a huge crush on this guy who is really friendly and super sweet to me, but all we ever do is talk about work. One of my coworkers told me he might be gay. How can I find out about his sexuality without embarrassing him or myself?

—Muchacha in MI

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