By Dolores | 01/11/2010 - 14:25
I was gordita when I first started going out with my boyfriend two years ago. A while back, I decided to get myself in shape, and now I have the body I’ve always wanted. The problem is that he doesn’t pay attention to me any more. What should I do?
—Flaca Confundida in San Diego
By Dolores | 12/28/2009 - 15:48
I’m 23 years old and I’m getting married in two months, but I’m really scared because I’m a virgin. I have no experience whatsoever. Maybe it was wrong to hold on to my virginity this long, but I’m old- fashioned (that’s why I never had sexual relations with my novio). What should I do to get rid of my fears?
—Novia Temblorosa Online
By Dolores | 12/25/2009 - 11:00
I’ve been married for just about eight months, and my husband wants to go out sometimes to hang out with his friends. My question is, should I let him go once in a while? He’s Caucasian and thinks its okay for husbands and wives to do things on their own. As a Latina, I was taught differently. According to my father, I should not let my husband go out because he might leave me for another mujer.
—Que Digo in CA
Dear Que Digo:
By Dolores | 12/16/2009 - 12:56
I met this 22-year-old guy who wants to date me. I also want to date him, but the only problem is that he lost three of his front teeth. Other than that, he is cute. But I don’t know how to tell my family.
—Mexicanita on the Internet
Just make sure your mom doesn’t cook costillitas the day you bring your boyfriend home. Something soft, like sopa or tamales, should do the trick. He, in turn, should smile as little as possible.
By Dolores | 12/11/2009 - 13:33
I was talking to this man for more than a year. He never asked me out, never invited me to his house and never came to my house (he’d always make some excuse for why he couldn’t come). We work at the same company but in different departments, so we never see each other during working hours. However, he called me on the phone at least seven times every single day. I finally told him not to call me anymore. Now he’s spreading rumors and being really hateful. What do you think?
—Lisa in Florida
By Dolores | 10/29/2009 - 17:00
I hope this doesn't sound like a stupid question. Here's my problem. I'm 17 and I'm dating this boy. All he talks about is having sex with me and I think that's all he wants, but I'm not sure. What should I do?
—Karolina in California
Sounds like you need to change the subject of conversation. And change the guy. At your age you need more of a variety of topics to be discussing anyhow.
—Variety is the spice of life! D
By Dolores | 10/26/2009 - 14:38
I have the biggest crush on this guy. I think I'm in love. He asked me out three years ago, but I turned him down because he was going to another school. But I just found out that he has a girlfriend and I'm really hurt. I jiust start crying when I think about the chance that I had and passed up! I can;t picture myself with anyone else but him now. Wat should I do?
—Marilyn in Maryland