Dolores dice...Where My Ladies At?

Dear Dolores:

I’m a 23-year-old Latino who has serious woman problems. I haven’t had a date in a year, and I am still a virgin. All my life I have either been told I was just "a good friend" or rejected by the girls I've had feelings for. I’m an educated guy, I work for a public library and I play music, but somehow none of this matters to women. All I ever hear is "No." Is there anything you could say to make me feel better?

—Lonely Ghost in California

Dear Lonely:

You are getting all those no’s because you are either asking the wrong question or asking the wrong girl. There are plenty of bookish girls who would love to find a guy like you. And if ever there were a good place to meet such a girl, you seem to be smack in the middle of it. Paciencia, mi'jo!

—Take another look around, D