I have been with this man for six years. We have one child together, and he has helped raise my oldest. However, we have many disagreements, and lately we don't see eye-to-eye on anything. He has a child by another woman and it seems as though the mother is always in the way somehow. Should I just walk away or should I tough it out because my heart is with him?
—Leticia on the 'Net
Judging by your letter, he's not a borracho, he's not unfaithful, he's not violent, and he's been a father to your child. As for his other child, of course he or she—and the mother—will always be in his life. That's part of his baggage, something you must have known when you met him. You don't have to "tough it out." If your heart is really with him, you will be able to work it out.
—As they say, home is where the heart is, D
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