Dolores dice...Going through Changes

Dear Dolores:

I had been chatting with this guy online for four months. We started to talk on the phone and got along great. He used to call me twice a day. Recently, he asked me if I wanted to visit him in San Francisco, so I went to meet him and we had a great time.

But now things have changed. He doesn’t call me as often. I’m the one doing all the calling. I told him I like him a lot and want to see more of him and asked him what he thinks of me. He said he doesn’t know and that he is going through some changes. What does he mean by that?

—Delia in Los Angeles

Dear Delia:

In man-speak, "going through changes" (also known as "I need some space") can mean any number of things. According to my unscientific research, the top 10 most common hidden meanings are as follows:

10) “I met a better looking chick and I want to pursue her but I don’t want to dump you yet”
9) "I’m hooked up with a better looking chick and I am having a ball, but I’ll keep you around just in case”
8) “I got a better looking chick pregnant and I am sweating bullets”
7) “I’m getting married”
6) “I am married”
5) “The thrill is gone”
4) “I want out”
3) “I’ve become immune to Viagra”
2) “I’m going through menopause”
1) “You looked better in pictures”

—Take your pick and move on, D

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