Sujeiry Gonzalez Contributor

Sujeiry Gonzalez is Latina's love and sex expert and the Host of LOVE Sujeiry on American Latino Radio on SiriusXM (Ch 154). The owner of LoveSujeiry.com — a community for all things love — has also authored two books that help Latinas navigate the world of dating and love: Dating RITE: Advice on Dating Woes from Your Go-to Chica and Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles

Losers with Women: A Group of Single Men Protest the Holidays
Losers with Women: Why This Group of Single Men Are Protesting the Holidays

Being single during the holidays is no easy feat. Not only must you cope with relatives asking, “Are you okay?” as you chug rompope, but you’re also temporarily blinded by that couple who can’t keep it in their pants under the mistletoe.


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Ask Sujeiry: Have You Been Naughty or Nice This Year?
Ask Sujeiry: Have You Been Kinky or Nice This Year?

Santa’s making his list, and he’s checking it twice. Question is: Have you been naughty or have you been nice?


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Condoms That Feel Like a Lubricated Penis
Thank You, Science: Researchers Develop Condoms That Feel Like Bare Skin

Let me set the scene: Your clothes are off. A papi chulo softly licks your nipples and fondles your clitoris. Then, he whispers, “I don’t like to use condoms.” Uhh, mood killer! You roll off your back and answer, “No condom, no sex." Hello! You’re a smart chica who knows to use protection. “But, it doesn’t feel like the real thing," he complains.

Good news, ladies. Soon, men won’t be able to use that lame excuse anymore.


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Horror Story: "I Hooked Up With A Co-worker At A Holiday Party — And His GF Was There."
"I Hooked Up With A Co-Worker At A Holiday Party — And His Girlfriend Was There"

Eons ago, I had a mini-affair with a co-worker. I was 20-something and foolish, insecure and riddled with abandonment issues. Still, I take responsibility for my part in this love affair, especially since I felt no remorse when I hooked up with "Mr. G" at our holiday party.

Did I mention his girlfriend was also there?

MORE: "I Ditched My Family's Thanksgiving Dinner — For A Booty Call"


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5 Tips For Dating Outside Your Religion
5 Tips For Dating Outside Your Religion

I was raised Catolica. Now as an adult, I consider myself a spiritual person and a non-practicing Catholic. Luckily, my boyfriend/baby daddy is just like me: he believes in God, but he isn’t religious. So it works out.

But, what if your significant other doesn’t believe in God at all? Or, what if they practices a different religion altogether? What is the impact on your relationship, familia and kids? Here is what it’s really like to date outside your religion:


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The Most Shocking Sex Controversies Of 2015
The Most Shocking Sex Controversies Of 2015

2015 was a whirlwind. I began my tenure as Latina’s love and sex expert and even grabbed some girl booty at a sex toy shop. My little adventures, however, don’t compare to some of this year’s biggest sex scandals. 

To commemorate the end of another año, here are the most shocking sex controversies of 2015: 


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Take Back That Period: How Texting With Punctuation Affects Your Relationship
Take Back That Period: How Texting With Punctuation Affects Your Relationship

I have a really difficult time texting in shorthand. Whether it’s BRB, LOL or SMH, I just can’t bring myself to type nonsensical acronyms. I must use proper grammar at all times — even while sexting. However, my love of punctuation and subject-verb agreement might actually be a turn-off to my partner.

MORE: Sexting 101: Best Messages to Get Him Hot, Not Bothered


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7 Mistakes To Avoid While Meeting The In-Laws During The Holidays
7 Mistakes To Avoid While Meeting The In-Laws During The Holidays

In 2009, my then boyfriend, Johnny, came over to my tia’s house for a New Year's Eve party. It was his first time meeting my family, and he met the entire lot. Johnny was pleasant, charming and handsome, yet Mami wasn't convinced he was “the one" for me. Though she never told me why she didn't like Johnny, I had a feeling it had everything to do with his Puerto Rican/Italian cockiness.


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Ask Sujeiry: I Want to Get My Freak On! What to Get Your Lover for the Holidays
Ask Sujeiry: I Want to Get My Freak On! What to Get Your Lover for the Holidays

Ho, ho, ho! It's time for gift giving, and what better way to show your amor (and get your freak on) than with sex toys? I really can't think of another.


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U.S. Soldier To Get The First Penis Transplant
First Penis Transplant in the U.S. to Be Performed on Wounded Soldier

Through science, technology and medical research, doctors have cured polio, developed clinical trials to combat cancer and have even cloned a mammal. (Remember Dolly the Sheep?!) Now, surgeons will be able to accomplish what once seemed impossible: a penis transplant.

MORE: 6 Tips For Keeping Your Vagina Clean & Healthy


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