Sujeiry Gonzalez Contributor

Sujeiry Gonzalez is the Host of LoveSujeiry on American Latino Radio on SiriusXM, and the owner of LoveSujeiry.com. The life coach and author of the newly released Dating RITE; Advice on Dating Woes from Your Go-to Chica and Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles (2012) is an on-air talent that’s been featured on Exitos 93.9FM, Telemundo, FYI, and many more.

Latinas Are Winning! Men Like Big Butts And They Cannot Lie
Latinas Are Winning! Men Like Big Butts And They Cannot Lie

When I was younger, I didn’t have a big booty. My Dominican genes had yet to kick in and I was saddened by the flatness of my derriere. Not to mention, I felt left out.

Latinas are known to have amazing behinds (Jennifer Lopez, anyone?!) and Latinos love a woman with curves. How else will they be inspired to create innovative catcalls, like, “Tu con tantas curvas y yo sin frenos! (You with all those curves and me without breaks!)”


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How Singles Can Get Out of a Dry Spell
7 Ways Single Ladies Can Get Out of a Sexual Dry Spell

There was a time in my 20’s where I went two years without having sex. Yes, two years! My vagina shutters at the thought.

Why did I undergo such a long drought? It was sort of self-imposed. I promised myself to be a good Catholic Latina and not give up my goods until I was in a meaningful, committed relationship. Men wined and dined and tried to get in my pants, but my chastity belt was unbreakable — until I met Luke.


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Don’t Fear the Kink! 6 Sex Toys for Beginners
Don’t Fear the Kink! 6 Sex Toys for Beginners

We all have that one friend that is afraid of our buzzing playmates. She raises a brow when you mention how much you enjoy your “bullet on your clitoris" or utter the word "lube." “No one needs to know your business,” your amiga often says. “That's so...kinky,” she says with a mix of curiosity and disapproval. So you retrieve to your land of dildos and vibrators, hoping that one day she’ll embrace her very own B.O.B (Battery Operated Boyfriend).


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How to Talk Dirty to Your Guy in Spanish
How to Talk Dirty to Your Guy in Spanish

You're in the heat of passion: He's licking your nipples, nibbling on your lower lip, pinching your thighs, booty, and waist, and he whispers, "Say something in Spanish." If you're a native English speaker like me, you may do a double take. I only speak Spanish to Mami, and I don't want to think about that (or her) mid thrust!

Still, you — I — go with it. If he wants you to talk dirty to him in Spanish, the least you can do is give it a try. So what do you say? What words and phrases in español will turn him on?


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7 Foods and Drinks Promote Great Sex
6 Foods and Drinks That Promote Great Sex

Food. We gotta have it. It's sustenance. It keeps us alive. It promotes...pleasure? Yes. And I'm not talking about the pleasure you feel when you devour a rich slice of chocolate cake, or a crunchy pastelito, or a savory and sugary cinnamon churro. Although that all tastes and feels amazing, eating certain foods can turn us on down there. And drinks are not to be left out. Sipping on a little somethin' somethin' may lead you to devour the man in your life.
Here are some foods and drinks that serve as aphrodisiacs and promote great sex:


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How To Ease Sex Anxiety
4 Ways To Help Ease Sex Anxiety

With the arrival of Fifty Shades of Grey, women everywhere are stretching their muscles and doing their kegels. Chicas are really trying to get their freak on!

But what if you're hoping to spice things up with your lover but you're a newbie at a lot of this kinky stuff? Oh the pressure! It's just too much, but it doesn't have to be.


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Sexting 101: Best Messages to Get Him Hot, Not Bothered
Sexting 101: Best Messages to Get Him Hot, Not Bothered

Whether you’re in a long distance relationship or looking to add extra touch of kinky to your relationship, sexting is the way to go. It’s free and easy to do — all you need is a bit of imagination and Snapchat.

You also want to add enough sex appeal so he doesn’t freak out (hey, you want to get him hot, not bothered). The goal is to make him feel like he wants to pin you against the wall and kiss you passionately after sexting — not question your sexual prowess. Here are some sexts to get you started:


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Surprising Benefits of Sex
8 Things Latinas Never Considered When It Comes to Sex

Whenever I mention masturbation or utter the word “pene” around some Latinas, they shriek with terror or shake their head in shame. We really need to do away with this idea that sex is taboo, chicas. Thankfully, we have My Little Yoni to help.


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Forget Flowers! 10 Kinky Valentine's Day Gifts
Forget Flowers! 10 Kinky Valentine's Day Gifts

Valentine's Day is near, and so it's time to shop for gifts for your love. Thing is we sometimes get in the same old, gift-giving rut. So instead of buying him flowers, chocolates, or a tie, how about something you both can use… wink wink. Whether you like it raw and passionate or slow and sensual, these 10 kinky treats will make a perfect Valentine's Day present. 

MORE: A Valentine's Day gift guide you'll actually use


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Is Mr. Right Actually Mr. Wrong? 6 Dating Deal Breakers
Is Mr. Right Actually Mr. Wrong? 6 Dating Deal Breakers

A woman must know what she wants and needs in a relationship. You have to be "self-first," as I call it, and be crystal clear on what makes you smile and what makes you hurl. Si no you'll date any homeboy that kicks it to you, and won't have anyone to blame but yourself. In other words, if you don't know your dating deal breakers and non-negotiables, you in danger, girl.

Lets tackle some blaring signs so you can dump the guy who waves these red flags. It's what Cupid would want you to do right before Valentine's Day. 


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