Sujeiry Gonzalez Contributor

Sujeiry Gonzalez is the Host of LoveSujeiry on American Latino Radio on SiriusXM, and the owner of LoveSujeiry.com. The life coach and author of the newly released Dating RITE; Advice on Dating Woes from Your Go-to Chica and Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles (2012) is an on-air talent that’s been featured on Exitos 93.9FM, Telemundo, FYI, and many more.

9 Weird Sex Fetishes
9 Weird Sex Fetishes

Like to be tied up? Want to get a little spanked while in the throes of passion? Don't be shy, we won't judge. Many of us have sexual fantasies that we'd like to bring to life. Plus, these sex fetishes are quite the norm. Since Fifty Shades of Grey achieved international notoriety, folks don't blink an eye when someone mentions BDSM. It's all the rage — and so is talking a little dirty.


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5 Reasons He Didn't Call You Back
5 Reasons He Didn't Call You Back

We are in the midst of an epidemic. Like the common cold during flu season, men are coming down with a serious case of Chickenitis. Symptoms include frailty, which causes him to stand you up; shaky and clammy hands, so he can’t grab his phone to text you back; and forgetfulness, as in who is this woman who keeps calling and asking me why I dropped off the face of the Earth?!


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7 Reasons to Date a Younger Man
7 Reasons to Date a Younger Man

What do Jennifer LopezEva Longoria and Madonna all have in common (besides being rich, famous and fabulous)? They love to rob the cradle. 


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Find A Buddy! Loneliness Can Literally Kill You
Find A Buddy! Loneliness Can Literally Kill You

Whenever I think of loneliness, I imagine a solterona confiding in her cats (her only friends) while sobbing like a heartbroken telenovela star. I know what you are thinking: how dare I assume that a single, old cat lady is lonely? True. But there is something to say about isolation and how it affects us negatively.


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Number Sexual Partners Conversation Advice
Que? How Many People Did You Sleep With?!

I used to boast about my number of sexual partners. For a long time that number was zero. While my friends were getting it on to the melodies of Blackstreet and Silk, I was tightening the lock on my chastity belt. No man shall enter until they prove they are worthy of my vagina! Or so I thought.


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Ay, El Amor! And What It Does to Our Brain
Ay, El Amor! And What It Does to Our Brain

When in love, we feel happier than ever, share YouTube videos of baladas on our Facebook timeline, and want to spend every minute of the day with our significant other. Love truly does a number on us, and I’m including myself in the mix.

Turns out it’s not really our fault. We get annoyingly mushy, attached, and overly elated because love does something to our brains. Researchers from universities in China and New York tracked how our brains change when we are in love, or if we have been recently cast aside and heartbroken.


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5 Reasons to Give Your Ex Another Chance
5 Reasons to Give Your Ex Another Chance

There’s a Spanish saying that goes: “Mejor estar sola que mal alcompañada” (Better to be alone than in bad company), and I completely agree. No one should be in a relationship for the sake of being one. A lifetime of romantic disconnect is a high price to pay for lackluster companionship. If and when things go south with your lover, and your needs are not being fulfilled, end the relationship — that’s what a breakup is for.


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Killer Headache? Have Sex to Cure the Pang
Killer Headache? Have Sex to Cure the Pang

Your bebes are screaming, your man is too busy watching the game, and you feel a killer headache coming on. Seconds later, you have a painful migraine that just won’t go away. How to cope? Grab your hombre off that couch and head to your cama.

MORE: 6 Foods and Drinks That Promote Great Sex


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Latinas Are Winning! Men Like Big Butts And They Cannot Lie
Latinas Are Winning! Men Like Big Butts And They Cannot Lie

When I was younger, I didn’t have a big booty. My Dominican genes had yet to kick in and I was saddened by the flatness of my derriere. Not to mention, I felt left out.

Latinas are known to have amazing behinds (Jennifer Lopez, anyone?!) and Latinos love a woman with curves. How else will they be inspired to create innovative catcalls, like, “Tu con tantas curvas y yo sin frenos! (You with all those curves and me without breaks!)”


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How Singles Can Get Out of a Dry Spell
7 Ways Single Ladies Can Get Out of a Sexual Dry Spell

There was a time in my 20’s where I went two years without having sex. Yes, two years! My vagina shutters at the thought.

Why did I undergo such a long drought? It was sort of self-imposed. I promised myself to be a good Catholic Latina and not give up my goods until I was in a meaningful, committed relationship. Men wined and dined and tried to get in my pants, but my chastity belt was unbreakable — until I met Luke.


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