Sujeiry Gonzalez Contributor
Sujeiry Gonzalez is Latina's love and sex expert and the Host of LOVE Sujeiry on SiriusXM (Ch 154). The founder of LoveSujeiry - a brand for love and beauty - and Publisher of LoveSujeiry.com is also a Rodan + Fields consultant. Sujeiry has authored two books that help Latinas navigate the world of dating and love (Dating RITE: Advice on Dating Woes from Your Go-to Chica and Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles) and provides dating and beauty advice daily.
Latest from this author
Wake up and put on some Usher, baby. It may just do the trick and boost your libido. Still not interested? For women, it’s not uncommon to need a little more than R&B and foreplay to turn us on. According to a study, women don’t enjoy sex as much as men do and orgasm less due to, well, being women!
Let’s turn this around, chicas! Here are some things you and your lover can do to get you in the mood for sex.
Whether you’re into guys, gals or anyone in between, the oddest things often occur during sex. Think about it: you’re half or fully naked and juices are flowing. It’s bound to get messy.
The most awkward time, however, is usually after the act. You lie there and don’t know what to do or say — especially if the sex was less than stellar. Some after-sex-moments are so bizarre that they belong in a circus. Like some of these odd things guys said to Latinas after getting freaky:
Contrary to popular belief (and traditional teachings), women can enjoy sex. We’re supposed to – I mean, the clitoris’ sole purpose is to provide pleasure, so we really should! That includes being multi-orgasmic. Yes, women can orgasm again and again during intercourse. You just have to know what to do.
Luckily, two sex experts are leading the way. Here are tips and tricks to up your game in the bedroom so you can cum as often as your heart desires.
There’s a myth that white men love to give oral sex. Latino men...not so much. I haven’t been with enough gringos to compare, but what if you love receiving cunninlingus and your hombre rather eat a rotten grapefruit than go downtown?
Your needs must be met, chica! So let’s find a solution. Here are ways to get him to go down on you, according to a slew of sexperts:
Back in the day, women were married off as teenagers and remained with their husbands till death do they part. Well, times have changed, chicas, and thank God! At 18, you shouldn’t have to tend to a home and birth multiple children. Instead, you should find yourself and focus on your future. Si no, you may end up divorced.
So you’re at the local bar with your closest amiga when you notice the hot bartender can’t keep his eyes off of you. “I’m going to try to get his attention,” you say. She nods and you both plot your strategy. Soon, you exchange numbers with the cute bartender, but your once-supportive girl is now giving you the stink eye.
“I don’t know about him,” she judges, “he was checking out this other customer.” Is your gal pal being protective or is she actually killing your game? Here are some signs that she’s cockblocking you and possible reasons why:
Not long ago, transgender Tinder users complained that they had been banned from the popular dating app. Some profiles were even suspended when other members reported trans users for unseemly behavior, which they said consisted of inappropriate photos and spam. Only the transgender Tinder users were just being themselves.
Do you remember the Ouija Board? Young women would hover over the board game, blaming each other whenever the planchette moved. But does the Ouija Board really work or is it all in your head? One woman believed her Ouija when it said her man was cheating, and no one can tell her otherwise!
“I have the perfect guy for you,” my friend Chloe blurted out. I furrowed my brows, unconvinced. I had met all of her male friends, and none of them was my type.
“Did you meet someone new?” I asked, still doubtful. “No! It’s Rick! He’s back from Miami, and I think you’ll hit it off,” she responded.
They say you can find love anywhere. All you need is an open heart and mind, a little faith and to know exactly what you want.
Well, this may all actually be BS as a recent study discovered that finding love is nearly impossible if you live in certain cities.
From Our Partners
Latina Media Ventures, LLC is a participant in the Amazon Service LLC Associate Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com, and is also a Linkshare, ShareaSale, and CJ affiliate. Our decisions to feature and recommend products is guided by our editorial decisions.