Sujeiry Gonzalez Contributor

Sujeiry Gonzalez is Latina's love and sex expert and the Host of LOVE Sujeiry on American Latino Radio on SiriusXM (Ch 154). The owner of LoveSujeiry.com — a community for all things love — has also authored two books that help Latinas navigate the world of dating and love: Dating RITE: Advice on Dating Woes from Your Go-to Chica and Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles

7 Reasons To Use Lubricant
7 Reasons To Use Lubricant

When you think of lube, what comes to mind? Una viejita, right? A dried out vagina? That’s because lubricant gets a bad rap. If you use it, you must be menopausal or super into anal sex.


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Reasons Not Interested Sex
5 Reasons You're Not Interested In Sex

As Latinas, we are supposed to be caliente and ready for sex all the time. Ay, papi, take me ahora y siempre! Um, no. That’s just not how it works! Yet, men expect us to live up to this stereotype. The pressure of it all!
So, can you imagine how challenging it is being a Latina with a low libido? You are in a relationship and choose not to get freaky with your hombre. What gives? Here are some reasons why you may not have an interest in sex: 


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I’m So Pretty! Oh So Pretty! That I’m Straight
The Crazy Reason Beautiful Women Are More Likely To Identify As Straight

A sexy mujer struts by an hombre, and he says, “Cree que es la última Coca Cola en el desierto!” (In Englihs: She thinks she’s the last bottle of Coke in the desert!) He may just be right. Not only do extremely attractive women believe their love and attention can quench a man’s thirst, but they’re also strictly dickly.


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Que Miedo! A Man Proposes In a Michael Myers Costume
Que Miedo! A Man Proposed To His Girlfriend In a Michael Myers Costume

I cannot stand horror movies! Call me a miedosa all you want, but I will not spend my hard-earned cash to scream at the top of my lungs and have nightmares when my head hits the pillow. But not everyone feels this way As a matter of fact, some women love scary flicks so much that they want a proposal straight out of Halloween.


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Change That Diaper, Hombre! For a Better Sex Life
Change That Diaper, Hombre! Splitting Chores Can Lead To Hotter Sex

When my boo washes the dishes, I watch. Yes, I’m in awe of the fact that he is doing chores, but there’s also something so sexy about him in yellow rubber gloves. Perhaps it’s because my typical Latino papi never lifted a finger when I was a kid, and he still doesn’t help out in his new home with his new wife. So I get aroused when my boyfriend scrubs my pots and pans. I want to hump him like he’s the hottest hombre on Earth, because in that moment, he is!


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Things Women Should Do Before Marriage
5 Things Every Woman Should Do Before Getting Married

I sat beside the bride-to-be in a black stretch limo. She looked at me in a panic. “What if I’m making a mistake?!" she asked, her voice shaking. “You love him, he loves you — and he treats you like a Queen! There’s nothing to be scared of,” I coaxed. This didn’t settle my friend. Instead, she admitted to having a short affair with a coworker months before her big day. Not because she didn’t love her fiance, but because she felt inexperienced. “We just kissed,” she reassured me. “But it felt so good to be romantic with another man.”


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7 Reasons Abstaining from Sex is Good for Your Relationship
7 Reasons Abstaining from Sex is Good for Your Relationship

I once decided to abstain from sex. My decision came after years of dating and a multitude of bad breakups. At 28, I had grown tired of the dating scene. If one more hombre picked me up at a bar just so he could get me into bed, I was going to scream! So I closed my legs to all men, and promised myself that my next partner would be my “boyfriend.”


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5 Reasons to Go to a Cuddle Party
5 Reasons to Go to a Cuddle Party

I once met a woman who hated to cuddle. She'd allow her husband to wrap his arms around her in bed — until he knocked out. After he fell asleep, she'd slide her arm from underneath him, and crawl back into her corner of the bed. No more cuddling, please


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Disabled? You Can Attend This Sex Party
Disabled? You Can Attend This Sex Party

Sex parties. They exist — and not just in the movie Eyes Wide Shut. When I lived in Los Angeles I met a young woman who admitted to attending a sex club. She didn’t get freaky with anyone, but she did witness full-on sex — on the dance floor, in a sex room with windows for voyeurs, and on the sex swing. Yes, the sex swing

WATCH: Ask Sujeiry: How to Get a Threesome Partner


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Sorry Chicos! Women May Just Be Commitment-Phobes
Sorry Chicos! Women May Just Be Commitment-Phobes

For most of my life, I’ve been told that men just can’t commit. Hollywood has relayed this message for years, and I can’t recount the times my tia and mama would shake their heads in disapproval while uttering,”Los hombres no sirven para nada!” (This basically means men are good for nothing) No wonder I had relationship issues.


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