Sujeiry Gonzalez

Sujeiry Gonzalez is the Love Guru on Exitos 93.9FM,  a relationship writer and author of Love Trips. Get her relationship advice daily on LoveSujeiry.com.

Is Your Coworker a Dominatrix?
Is Your Coworker a Dominatrix?

Rihanna once sang, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me." Wait, what? That's the first thought that crossed my mind. Who would want to get spanked and whipped for pleasure? The last whooping I received was at the hands of my very Dominican mother. No one wants to relive that, right? Right?!


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Sex Drive: What Everyone Else is Doing in the Bedroom
Sex Drive: What Everyone Else is Doing in the Bedroom

When I was single and ready to mingle (and commit), I’d seethe at cutesy couples that couldn’t take their hands off of each other. What do they have that I didn’t have with Paco and Luke and Elijah? I know how to work it, so why didn’t those relationships last? I hate all these sexy couples!


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7 Things to Know About Anal Sex
7 Things to Know About Anal Sex

In a recent episode of The Mindy Project, Mindy Lahiri accused her beau, Danny, of trying to enter through her backdoor. Yes, he wanted to have anal sex. Mindy freaked and with good reason. Anal sex is a deeply (pun intended) intimate act. The butthole is where something (ahem) comes out of, not where you generally want something to go in. Not to mention, it can be painful. Not to mention, it harps on insecurities.


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7 Sex Terms Every Latina Should Know
7 Sex Terms Every Latina Should Know

If you've ever clicked on Urban Dictionary, you know that it holds a variety of definitions relating to sex. Sex terms that are so extreme, like "bumpkin," that not even the freakiest and most passionate Latina of the bunch would dare to try. If you do, God bless your courage.


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How to Choose the Right Partner for a Threesome
How to Choose the Right Partner for a Threesome

In today's world, sex isn't only about a man and a woman or even a human and another human. Some folks get off on sleeping with blow-up dolls. Others are attracted to the same sex. Then there are those who don't feel that one partner at a time is enough. And there we have the threesome — every man's fantasy and every woman's nightmare. But wait, is it?


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Why You Should Take Your Man to a Sex Toy Shop
Why You Should Take Your Man to a Sex Toy Shop

When I first walked into a sex store I envisioned my very Catholic and very Dominican mother dropping to her knees. “Santo Dios!” she yelled while dousing me with holy water. I’d scurry right out, like a mouse that’s been caught in a trashcan. I felt like such a sinner.


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7 Sex Moves All Women Wish Men Would Stop Doing
7 Sex Moves All Women Wish Men Would Stop Doing

Sex. We all want to have it and we all want to be great at it. Women want men they've bedded to brag about their sexual prowess, and for other men to desire them even if they can't have them. Men are especially pressured to be the best en la cama. From measuring their penises to discovering that elusive female G-spot, los hombres want to be macho macho men and make us scream for more, more, more!


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7 Reasons to Venture into Tantric Sex
7 Reasons to Venture into Tantric Sex

Whenever you hear the word ‘tantra’ you probably envision Sting and his wife, Trudie Styler, engaging in kinky sex. Candles lit, moaning that endures, “Roxanne” playing in the background though his wife’s name is Trudie: that’s what tantric sex is, right?


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7 Roles You Should Play in the Bedroom
7 Roles You Should Play in the Bedroom

When you've been with someone for a while (or if you're not a risk taker by nature), sex can get boring. Instead of your toes curling every other night, you put your socks on and Vivaporu, and snooze away to Dreamland. But even if you’re getting it on the regular, sex can still become monotonous. Missionary, cowgirl, back to missionary — sex has never been so vanilla, chica!


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Scared Woman
NSFW: Sex Toys That Are Absolutely Terrifying

Unlike decades past, there are a plethora of sex toys at our disposal. Whether you want to get freaky with your partner, or have a stimulating night with a party of one, you can find a sex toy for whatever you desire. And whatever body part you want fondled.


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