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Dimelo: "How Do I Tell My Family I'm Not Having Kids?"
Dimelo: "How Do I Tell My Family I'm Not Having Kids?"

Dear Pauline,

I've decided I don't want to have children. I know it's not what my family wants to hear and I'm not even sure how to bring it up without a major fight.

I'm 32 and engaged to an incredible man. I can't wait to start planning our wedding!


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Dimelo: "Why Does It Matter That He's Black?"
Dimelo: "Why Does It Matter That He's Black?"

Dear Pauline,

I'm 15 and I really like this guy who is a Junior. He is very sweet and very cute and he asked me to see a movie with him. I'm allowed to date now, since I had my quince, but I'm not sure what I should do.


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Dimelo: "I Want to Go to Away to College, Mami Wants Me to Stay"
Dimelo: How to Start New Adventures & Leave Even When You're Afraid

New starts aren't easy. Latina's advice columnist tackles two reader problems: one is ready for a new start and to say adios to her mami, while the other is scared to make a move. Do you agree with her advice? Leave a comment and let us know!

Dear Pauline,


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Clone of Dimelo: "How Do I Deal With His Crazy Ex?"
Dimelo: "How Do I Deal With His Crazy Ex?"

Dear Pauline,

I seem to have a crazy ex-girlfriend problem. La Loca can't seem to figure out it was for real when my boyfriend of a year dumped her crazy ass two years ago. The woman moved to LA from Chicago in an RV and parked it five minutes away from my boyfriend's place. She's doing her best to get him to give her a second chance and sabes que? I can't take it anymore!


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Dimelo: "Did He Break Up With Me Because I Wasn't Intimate With Him?"
Dimelo: "Did He Break Up With Me Because I Wasn't Intimate With Him?"

Dear Pauline,

I am 21-years-old and madly in love with a man who wined and dined me for two months before deciding he didn't want a relationship. Instead, he said, he wanted to focus on his degree and his career. Coming from a strict Cuban family, I didn't get intimate with him because I wanted to get to know him better and learn his real intentions. Now I wonder if that's the reason he backed off.


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Dimelo: "How Do I Get Him To Call Me His Girlfriend?"
Dimelo: "How Do I Get Him To Call Me His Girlfriend?"

Dear Pauline,

I've been dating this guy for two months and he calls me sweet names when I'm with him. He's also always nice to me, especially when I sleep over his house. I think I'm falling in love but I don't want to say anything too early. He hasn't asked me to officially be his girlfriend yet and I'm starting to wonder. Am I being used? Or is he just slow in the commitment department? What do you think?

Sincerely,

Esperando


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Dimelo: "Is My Boyfriend Having an Affair With My Best Friend?"
Dimelo: "Is My Boyfriend Having an Affair With My Best Friend?"

Dear Pauline,

A few months ago I started receiving anonymous texts saying that my best friend and my boyfriend were messing around. At first, I ignored them, thinking it was a bad joke. But then I started thinking, and friends started talking. I heard from one friend that my best friend has mentioned her "forbidden love" for a man who is in a relationship and has a daughter, which is just like my boyfriend and me. On the same nights he "picks up shifts at work" and I call her to hang out, she says she's busy. And for some reason, two of the most important people in my life always have an excuse for not being in the same space with me at the same time. I've known my girl since we were babies. She's closer to me than my own sisters. And my boyfriend might be a jerk sometimes, but he is the father of my little girl. I don't know if I should ruin a good thing by asking questions or pretend someone isn't trying to tell me something I would rather ignore.—La Textenovela 


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